I remember one of the minor stepping stones into me questioning my faith was the understanding of the burden of proof and the scientific method. I did not understand that atheism was the ‘Lack of Belief’ in that it takes the default position. I did not understand it is the negative position, in that it assumes nothing until proof is given. And that there are many other schisms along the spectrum of belief, that I also did not understand. (I.E.: Theism, Agonisticsm, Deism). These two videos below, were the two that really broke it down into laymens terms for me to understand.
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